If you have ever considered giving your partner the gift of a sexy selfie, then you probably already realize how much your partner appreciates it.  As we get older and our relationships get more calm and less chaotic, we find ourselves doing less and less of this type of thing, probably because the struggles of everyday life take away a lot of our energy.  After you have been with someone for a while, you start to prioritize the daily routines and chores that you have to accomplish over the little things like giving your partner a little bit of excitement.  Some people would look at this as being a little more boring than when the relationship was new, and may even wonder where that excitement and spark went.  Chances are that it never actually went away, it just got put on the back burner as the life you have built together took priority.  This is where a boudoir photo shoot can do wonders.

Many people fantasize about sexy situations, and those fantasies usually involve specific elements that the person enjoys, just put into a more erotic portrayal than you would typically see.  A sports fan might see pictures of people in sports jerseys and find it attractive.  Others might fantasize about seeing someone undressing through a window.  No matter what that fantasy is, a boudoir photographer can create it and capture it.  Boudoir photography is designed to create the sexy visuals that you know your partner likes, and put you in the center of it all.  The difference between boudoir and other types of photo shoots is that in boudoir the model is not just a part of the photograph, instead they are more in control of the whole scene.  In a boudoir photo shoot, the model has discussed what their partner would like to see, and works with the photographer to create that scene.

Boudoir photography is “personal erotica,” and is extra special to your partner for a few reasons.  First and foremost, it is you in those pictures, going out of your way to make yourself attractive for them.  There is no better gift than to let someone know that you care enough about them to want them to find you exciting and sensual.  The second aspect is that you are actually catering to the visuals that your partner wants to see.  You are creating the scene that you know they will enjoy looking at, you are creating erotica that is just for them.  These types of things are powerful, and just like getting that unexpected sexy selfie they make the person realize that you are still thinking about them and finding them attractive too.

Boudoir photography is a great way to show someone that you love them, and that you are willing to take the time to make them see you for the sexy and erotic person that you are, even if they don’t get to see it every day.  Boudoir photography will make you feel sexy yourself, and when they see the pictures they will see you in a way they might have never expected.  Give it a try, theres nobody who is going to be disappointed, ever.